tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post1821216507193506123..comments2023-08-27T04:01:27.437-04:00Comments on Cultivating Rosebuds: Talk or walk? Which is the right thing?Erinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06464241771910686575noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-79947349743162540262011-01-21T08:40:21.438-05:002011-01-21T08:40:21.438-05:00I'm not very confrontational, so I would walk....I'm not very confrontational, so I would walk. Honestly though, I don't really see how telling her how you felt (though totally justified) would change her behavior in the long run. It might be a wake up call for her, but as a "friend", she might not take your suggestions/feedback as seriously as she should and that could cause a whole lot of drama.<br /><br />Sorry sweetie!Kmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05008496338777404036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-27353608676426881962011-01-20T23:05:38.657-05:002011-01-20T23:05:38.657-05:00I'm inclined to say I would walk, only because...I'm inclined to say I would walk, only because I try to avoid confrontation, plus I see the cup half full sometimes, if you say something to her, she may think you are just trying to be mean. Then again, depending on how close the two of you are she may welcome the knowledge, because she genuinely may not have realized she was doing something wrong. Still, I'd just gradually walk away.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-57597034025820817882011-01-20T22:23:42.283-05:002011-01-20T22:23:42.283-05:00I DON'T do confrontations, so if it were me, I...I DON'T do confrontations, so if it were me, I would walk. It's her own fault if she looses customers for behaving unprofessionally...<br /><br />Fellow Dream Team member!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-76091365186682846802011-01-20T21:01:09.739-05:002011-01-20T21:01:09.739-05:00Yikes. I'd probably just want to pull away fro...Yikes. I'd probably just want to pull away from her. <br /><br />But, if it could really help her...I'd also think about telling her.<br /><br />I sent an email to the leader of my Bible Study at my church with some suggestions today. I'm cringing as I wait for a response, but I also feel like they need to change things or they will lose new members...kind of the same thing.Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-80089774870472812682011-01-20T20:04:31.795-05:002011-01-20T20:04:31.795-05:00It doesn't sound like she really meant to insu...It doesn't sound like she really meant to insult your intelligence... but gossiping & excluding some of the moms is not cool, especially at work where you are the owner! Honestly, in reality I would probably "walk". I would ignore it and move on. But, in my dream world, I would I would tell her that she wasn't acting very professional.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424901190462383299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-91169725299480460442011-01-20T17:20:16.001-05:002011-01-20T17:20:16.001-05:00I'd probably be inclined to gradually pull awa...I'd probably be inclined to gradually pull away and start distancing myself from her. I'm so sorry she turned out to be someone like that. :(Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.com