tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post2277990049114684588..comments2023-08-27T04:01:27.437-04:00Comments on Cultivating Rosebuds: Explaining to a four year old about movingErinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06464241771910686575noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-35575738161980927872011-04-01T13:12:58.350-04:002011-04-01T13:12:58.350-04:00We moved when my kids were 3.5 and 18mo. I got a g...We moved when my kids were 3.5 and 18mo. I got a great book on moving for the library and took liberties in using the tone/words of that book to make a photobook from my son (I think I can share it with you through Shutterfly if you want to see it).<br /><br />We included pictures of all our favorite places, school, library, park and all his friends. We read it a lot. Now we moved from an apartment to a house, so they gained a lot (playroom, yard) so the move was very exciting for them. After about a month my son kept asking when we were going back to our old house. Having the book and pictures really helped him work through it. We still almost 3 years later talk about it and read through it. <br /><br />My daughter remembers nothing as far as she is concerned we have only lived her. In fact when looking at baby pictures she gets confused, why is the table upstairs, my room isn't blue :-)Melissa Haakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06692372175623299858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-78714049811112799632011-03-30T17:37:43.335-04:002011-03-30T17:37:43.335-04:00Happy Birthday!! We have had to do this conversati...Happy Birthday!! We have had to do this conversation multiple times, so my 5 year old is quite used to it. This next time should be the last, (at least for awhile!) and I think my 2 year old is still young enough to get through it unscathed. We always encourage with details of what a new adventure it will be and what it will have that he's used to (like restaurants, play areas, parks, etc.). good luck with the move I'm sure it will go great!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06957238407666666350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-87612959011943129802011-03-30T17:36:16.821-04:002011-03-30T17:36:16.821-04:00Happy birthday!!!
Poor ms h. What a tough realiza...Happy birthday!!!<br /><br />Poor ms h. What a tough realization. Humans are infinitely adaptable though...she'll get there sooner than you thinkKLZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07148991868974040605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-77839824011058704082011-03-30T14:11:30.300-04:002011-03-30T14:11:30.300-04:00We just moved a couple months ago from a house to ...We just moved a couple months ago from a house to an apartment. My boys are 5 and 3. Daddy didn't come with us. My 5 year old still misses his old house. He misses the view from the windows. He misses the space. He misses his cat. Slowly he is adjusting. Your kids will adjust too.Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14127474116860774939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-12868876745762006092011-03-30T14:00:55.932-04:002011-03-30T14:00:55.932-04:00Some of my kids were MUCH older this summer when w...Some of my kids were MUCH older this summer when we moved ten miles from our old house. It was still a HUGE adjustment for them.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10517747321455561159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-85782823079627804942011-03-30T11:44:25.855-04:002011-03-30T11:44:25.855-04:00HAPPY BIRTHDAY! make it wonderful :)
poor girl. ...HAPPY BIRTHDAY! make it wonderful :)<br /><br />poor girl. moving is hard enough, but she'll get over it when she sees all the new friends she gets to make.diane renehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14278917038491110157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-14637370092211692292011-03-30T11:39:17.028-04:002011-03-30T11:39:17.028-04:00Happy Birthday!!
I'd say the thing that's...Happy Birthday!!<br /><br />I'd say the thing that's great about moving this young is that it will pass. As nice as these friendships are, she'll probably find great friends at her new school and it'll be a distant memory. It would probably be harder if she was older!Amanda @ It's Blogworthyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14919340979575037179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-30071105319901400442011-03-30T11:25:59.658-04:002011-03-30T11:25:59.658-04:00Happy birthday! We've moved quite a bit, but I...Happy birthday! We've moved quite a bit, but I think only twice when my boys actually understood at all.<br /><br />We talked about a new place but bringing our things. <br /><br />And then we just sort of let it go and let them figure it out after the move and talked to them about it when they felt the need to.Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-3279599021808369832011-03-30T10:14:11.545-04:002011-03-30T10:14:11.545-04:00Happy birthday to you!
You are a good mama! I thi...Happy birthday to you!<br /><br />You are a good mama! I think you handled this beautifully...♥<br /><br />I cried reading. When I was 6, we moved from PA to AZ. About a day into the drive, I started sobbing and said that I would never have any friends again...as my best friend lived across the street and all my friends lived on our street.<br /><br />I don't remember my parents talking about it, but I do remember crying. Of course, I made new friends and life was fine. :)<br /><br />Interestingly enough, when I was 22, my dad and I had a conversation a couple months before he died where he thought about that move and wondered if that was why it was so hard for me to say goodbye to people...if that had impacted me in that way. Truly how could one know, but I am a person who makes the most of my time with people so there are no regrets with goodbyes. :)<br /><br />Just love on her and keep doing what you do! <br /><br />(I moved my own son when he was 7 from AZ to PA...he's a-ok too!)<br /><br />xoxoxStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09798009563849924501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-72549579149292015242011-03-30T09:49:32.743-04:002011-03-30T09:49:32.743-04:00Happy Birthday to you.. As a navy brat I know this...Happy Birthday to you.. As a navy brat I know this well. I moved from Virginia to Ky when I was 3 back to Virginia when I was 4 back to KY at 5 started school here, moved in my 4th grade year with mom back to Virginia. Came back to Ky my junior year. <br />It was hard but it was an adventure as well..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01949756584291140114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-11275901243578209052011-03-30T09:08:33.190-04:002011-03-30T09:08:33.190-04:00Happy birthday! I really don't believe they un...Happy birthday! I really don't believe they understand such concepts. You are right to think this will come up over and over. She sounds smart and pensive!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01564542013071462911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-58362400466029433992011-03-30T08:33:37.173-04:002011-03-30T08:33:37.173-04:00I do find it incredibly sweet that she called it a...I do find it incredibly sweet that she called it a moving vacation. I know it will be hard for her, but since Craig and I know that at least one more move is in our future, we tell ourselves they will get over it more quickly the younger they are. Now if they were tweens or teens....oy vey! :)Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06022297670179924365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877883538043307085.post-23569419479894793652011-03-30T08:15:22.867-04:002011-03-30T08:15:22.867-04:00Happy Birthday!!
Poor Miss H. I think you handle...Happy Birthday!!<br /><br />Poor Miss H. I think you handled it really well though. I am sure she'll be sad with moving, but maybe she might even get excited about the thought of making new friends.<br /><br />By the way, where are you moving?Kmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05008496338777404036noreply@blogger.com