Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Five Steps to Help Keep Children Safe

When I worked in the juvenile products industry, I worked for one of the most amazing mompreneurs in the business, Brenda Berg. I was the fourth full time employee of Brenda's company Scandinavian Child, which imports and distributes the best high chair on the market, the Svan Chair. I have known and worked with Brenda for the last five years and I could write a whole post just about how hard working, intelligent, and most importantly, kind she is.



But that's not what this post is about. Brenda has recently accepted the Chairmanship of the Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association (JPMA) Board of Directors for 2010/2011. Her leadership in the JPMA has helped Brenda develop a vast range of product safety knowledge and a passion for sharing that knowledge with parents. When asked for her top safety tips for parents and caregivers, she provides five steps parents and caregivers can take to help keep children safe:



1) Look for the JPMA Certification Seal: “Parents assume that if it is on the store shelf that it has been safety tested, but that’s simply not true of all products. While there are universally accepted safety standards, they are not mandatory and there are many products on the market that do not meet these standards.”




2) Safety First: "As basic as this sounds, READ THE WARNINGS and heed their advice because a lot of thought went into the potential for harm if the product is not used correctly. For example, fasten furniture to walls, keep your child's sitting and sleeping spaces away from curtain cords, do NOT place a bouncer on a table (they bounce!), and do not leave a child unattended in a high chair.”




3) Safe Sleep: "This is the one time of day when your child is not attended because, hopefully, you are sleeping too. Be extra careful in regards to crib safety, leaving infants in car seats for extended periods and issues with co-sleeping," she implores. JPMA has a terrific downloadable pamphlet called “Safe and Sound,” which provides detailed information. You can also find safe sleep tips at First Candle’s website.




4) Do your homework: "Look behind the label to find out more about the manufacturer and their practices. Poor quality and false claims can be found everywhere. If you want to be sure, contact the manufacturer to ask about their procedures.” When talking to any manufacturer, some questions might include:




a. Do your products meet the ASTM safety standards (if there is a relevant standard)? The key here is that you may not know what ASTM standards do/not exist for various categories and, in some cases, the manufacturer or sales rep may not know either.




b. Do your products meet the mandatory CFR standards for lead paint, strangulation, small parts, sharp points, and all other laws?

c. Do you conduct random testing either through the JPMA random retail testing program (under JPMA certification) or by yourself?




5) Children’s health and development: “In addition to looking for products that meet safety standards, it’s also important to look for products that are best for children’s development. This means looking for products that are more natural and ergonomic. It’s important to support children’s development with products designed to support crucial areas such as their neck and spine. www.HealthyChild.org is an excellent source for information on creating healthy environments where children and families can flourish.”

For more information on product safety and tips, Brenda recommends JPMA’s THE PARENTHOOD, the organization’s online community for moms, dads, grandparents and other caregivers, which offers comprehensive information on creating safe environments for children.



Through my time working as Scandinavian Child's Product Manager, I learned a great deal about child product safety. Do you have any questions regarding child and baby product safety? Leave me a comment and I will do my best to answer any questions either via email or here on my blog.



Erin

Pour Your Heart Out - Week 3

Today I am linking up with another one of my best blogging buddies, Shell, from Things I Can't Say. Have you met Shell? She is the bestest! On Wednesdays, Shell likes to pour her heart out. Sometimes it is serious, sometimes it is funny, everytime it is cathartic and cleansing.





Yesterday was my 32nd birthday and I really started thinking about how I am not getting any younger. I am starting to get a few laugh lines on my face and around my eyes, and my triceps are beginning to resemble wings. I took my measurements the other day and compared them to measurements I had taken just over four years ago right before our wedding. Ouch.




So, today I am recommitting myself to some of my New Year's Resolutions and making some new ones.




Taking Care of Me:




  1. My Body - I only have this one body that God gave me and dagnabit I need to take care of it! I have five to ten pounds that I could stand to lose. More than just losing the weight, I need to exercise! Finding the time is the challenge, so today I am restarting Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred. The mistake I made a couple of weeks ago with this was doing it everyday, which my body just can't handle right now. I am going to commit to doing it every other day for a month. Then we will reassess and go from there.




  2. My Skin - I have to admit to myself and accept that I am now IN MY THIRTIES. My skin is losing the elasticity of my youth and I need to take care of it! My worst mistake I think is not washing and moisturizing my face at night, so I am committing to start doing this today.




  3. My Sanity - I need to make sure that I am getting my time to myself. I have been doing a better job of that the past couple of weeks, but I need to make sure that I get a little bit of Mommy time everyday.




  4. My Marriage - In my opinion, Mr. Rose and I have a great marriage, but I want to make sure that it is even better. We have not been good at making time for each other, so we are going to start going on at least two dates a month. Our marriage is the foundation of our family, so for Miss H and Baby B's sakes, we need to take this time to ourselves.




There you have it. I need to take better care of myself and I am going to ask you to keep me accountable. At the end of every month I will post and update on how I am doing with these goals. Thanks for listening to me ramble today friends!



Erin



Tuesday, March 30, 2010

This or That? Tuesday - It's my Birthday!

The Winey Mommy


Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday dear Erin, Happy Birthday to me!



Now that we have that out of the way...what? Oh, you want to know how old I am? Let's just say it is the second anniversary of my 16th birthday. Sweet sixteen and never been....well...never mind.



On to the real business of the day! Chelle, one of my best blogging buddies, at The Winey Mommy, wants to know:



Do you prefer to watch movies at home or at the theater?



Because it's my birthday I am going to ride the fence on this one. I love going to the movie theatre where I can get totally lost in the movie and forget about everything else. But, I also love the comfort of my own home. So.....I think this is the best compromise of all.



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traditional media room design by los angeles architect KIYOHARA & MOFFITT


A movie theater in my house. How cool would that be? Anyone want to get me one for my birthday? Mr. Rose would love you for it!


Want to read more This or That? Tuesday? Head on over to The Winey Mommy!
Erin

Monday, March 29, 2010

Having a hard time finding the right fit?

As a 5' 2" petite, but slightly curvy, woman, I have a terrible time finding clothes that fit properly. Today, the online store eShakti was brought to my attention. eShakti has all types of clothes for women, but the best part about this site is that they will custom fit their clothes to your measurements! No more hemming pants or skirts that are too long for me. You can also choose various necklines and sleeve types and lengths. There seems to be no end to the customization! 



I also wanted to let everyone know that they are having a contest on their site, The eShakti Woman Contest. You can win a $250 gift certificate to eShakti, and everyone wins a $10 gift certificate just for entering! If you take the time to enter the contest, please tell them that Erin at Cultivating Rosebuds referred you. I hope you enjoy exploring their site as much as I did!! The contest ends March 31, 2010 at midnight PST, so head on over there now to enter.



PS - Did I mention Tuesday is my BIRTHDAY?!?!? Feel free to buy my anything from eShakti!



Erin

Sunday, March 28, 2010

What's in YOUR chicken nuggets?

Hey Y'all! I hope everyone had an awesome weekend. Mine has been filled with family outings to the zoo, long walks, a couple of naps, and shopping. I also had the opportunity to watch an eye-opening new show on ABC, Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution. Did you see it? If you didn't see it or haven't heard about it, Chef Jamie Oliver is "taking on obesity, heart disease and diabetes in the USA, where our nation's children are the first generation NOT expected to live as long as their parents."



I found it absolutely fascinating. And disgusting. At one point in the episode, he brought in a handful of children to show them how processed chicken nuggets were made. You can watch a similar demonstration here. Basically, he took a whole chicken and cut off the breasts, legs, and wings. With the remaining carcass of bones, fat, and connective tissue, he cut it up into chunks and then pureed it in his food processor. Then, he added stabilizer, fat, and flavoring, shaped the concoction into "nuggets," breaded them, and then fried them in oil. Voila! Chicken nuggets.



Vomit.



I honestly had no idea that this is what I had been feeding my child on a regular (once or twice a week) basis. I decided right then and there, no more store-bought processed chicken nuggets, no sir-eee!



So today, I brought out my trust Baby Bites cookbook and found the recipe for homemade chicken nuggets. I didn't have all the ingredients, so I improvised a bit. It was so simple, and even though it took a little bit more time and energy than buying the stuff in a box, the peace of mind I have of knowing what exactly is going into my child's body is worth it. And they were delicious to boot! Here is the recipe in case you are interested in doing this for your family. It made about 30 nuggets that I froze in portions of about 5 nuggets each so that I can warm them up whenever she is ready for a meal. Bon Appetit!



Ingredients

  • 1 pound chicken tenderloins, cut into nuggets
  • 1 cup breadcrumbs
  • 1/2 cup baby food oatmeal - (I told you I improvised right? Honestly, I didn't have enough breadcrumbs so I used some of Baby B's cereal. It actually worked great with the texture and it is fortified with extra vitamins - another plus!
  • 1/4 cup Parmesan cheese
  • 1 teaspoon garlic salt
  • 2 large eggs
  • 1/2 cup flour

Preheat oven to 450 degrees F. Mix breadcrumbs, oatmeal, cheese, and garlic salt. Dip nuggets into flour, then egg, then breadcrumb mixture. Bake on a cookie sheet sprayed with cooking spray for 10 to 15 minutes or until nuggets reach an internal temperature of 165 deg F.



(Recipe adapted from Baby Bites, Bridget Sweeney, copyright 2007)



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Erin

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Taking a Blogging Break

Wow, this week has been awesome. I have met so many fun new bloggers and "tweeps" in the past few days. So many of you have left wonderful comments on my blog this week, and it is truly humbling. I still can't believe that people actually read what I write...and like it.



I have family in town for the next several days, so I am going to take a step back from the writing to my blog for the weekend. In my spare time, I am going to make a big effort to get to all of YOUR blogs and leave comments for YOU!



Thanks again for all the comment love and hugs!



{PS - Does anyone know why my profile picture is not showing up in the sidebar? It appears everywhere else...like when I follow someone with GFC}



Erin

Yo Tweeps!

Everyone is doing it....I'm a sucker for peer pressure and this just looks like fun. I am relatively new to the twitter game, so I am joining in with SupahMommy to try to increase my twitter twaffic!








1. Follow me on twitter . Click on my twitter Icon below.











 
2. Shout me a hello on twitter like so: @erinroseberry #yotweeps I'm following! Then I'll know you followed and I'll reciprocate.



3. Want more tweeps? Grab the YO Tweeps Button. Click on the button at the top of this post to get it!

4. Place it on your blog. This helps to BRAND the Exchange so that it is recognizable.


5. Put a twitter icon / link on your blog post.


6. Link that post up over at one of the hosts' blogs.(Click on the YoTweeps button to find one of them!)


7. Visit some other YO Tweeps linkers on the list.


8. Follow them if you choose and shout out to them on twitter that you did.



Erin

Top Three Thursday - Throw them away!

 


This week Confessions of a Working Mom and The (Un)Experienced Mom want to know "What are the Top 3 Things you should have thrown away...like, yesterday?



#3 Size 2 Formal Dress - Nearly seven years ago when Mr. Rose and I were first dating, he invited me to attend a formal event with him. I was so excited to get all dressed up, and even more excited to find that I fit into a Size 2 dress. I loved everything about that dress: strapless, fitted bodice, and A-line skirt. And I looked DARN good in it.



Since then, I have had two babies. My hips and ribcage are wider to say the least. There is no chance that I am EVER getting back in that dress. I really should donate it to one of those charities that give dresses to girls who can't afford them. But it is so pretty hanging in my closet....



#2 First positive pregnancy test - The month that Miss H was conceived, I was "charting." Have you been there? Taking your temperature every morning at exactly the same time. Waiting for the temp shift. Counting DPO's (Days Past Ovulation.) I was obsessed. Every day that Aunt Flo didn't rear her ugly head I got more and more anxious. Finally, one morning, I got up and took the darn test. Seriously, I almost threw up waiting the three minutes. But it didn't even take that long. It almost immediately showed positive!



I was flabbergasted. I know women get pregnant every minute of every day, but I couldn't believe that it had finally happened to me. So I kept the test as a reminder of how much joy I felt at that moment. And I still have it, hidden in the bottom drawer of my jewelry armoire. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! I peed on that stick!



#1 Sweet 16 shirt - On my sixteenth birthday, almost exactly sixteen years ago, one of my friends gave me a shirt. It wasn't really anything fancy, just a shirt with blue and purple flowers on it. I wore it all the time. It got me through four years of college and beyond. Once it started fading, I relegated it to a workout and sleep shirt. Now, it is exclusively a sleep shirt.



My husband hates that shirt. It is beyond faded, and is starting to wear holes in the armpits. There is really NOTHING special about this shirt except that I have had it FOREVER. Literally half of my life! I really should throw it away...but it is all worn in and comfy now.



How about you? What do you really need to throw away? Head on over to Confessions to link up!



Erin

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Pour your heart out - Friends

Today I am linking up again with Shell from Things I Can't Say to pour my heart out. If you have something you want to pour your heart out about, write a post and head to Shell's to link up!






I do not make friends easily. My husband will probably disagree with that statement. But really, I don't. I have friends all over the country due to several moves I have made over the years, but really only two or three that I keep in touch with on a regular basis.



Whenever I move, I find myself faced with the same dilemma. I am lonely, but I hate stepping out of my comfort zone to reach out to others and make new friends. Honestly, I crave having friends. In the last town that we lived in, I had a friend that I could call whenever I was bored or lonely, and she would just say, "Come on over." It didn't matter if her house was dirty or her kids were having a day. I miss her. She made it easy for me to be friends with her.




In the current town where we live, I have made three friends. We have lived there for almost two years. I know more people than that, but only three, maybe four, that I really consider to be friends. I have a hard time opening up and letting other people in. I am self conscious that the other person isn't going to like me, or isn't going to like me as much as I like them.




Isn't that lame?




But guess what I have found. I have found a community in the blogosphere. I have found Shell, and Chelle, and Holly, and Kmama, and Jody, and Cheryl, and Katherine Anne, and Elizabeth, and Melissa, and a whole host of others. I have found these amazing women who read what I have to say and respond back to me about it. They boost my confidence and give me virtual hugs everyday.




Thank you for being my friends. Even those of you who don't leave me comments, thank you for being my friends. Thank you for reading what I write. Thank you for writing your own posts that inspire me to be a better wife, mother, and overall human being.




That is what friendship is about. Being there for each other and helping each other to be better. Even if we haven't met face to face, I consider you all friends. And you can come on over anytime you want. Just scootch the piles of laundry and dirty dishes aside. Cop a squat and let's chat.




I heart you bloggies!




Erin




Tuesday, March 23, 2010

This or That Tuesday - Week 2

The Winey Mommy


Do you buy your makeup at a discount/drugstore or some type of specialty makeup store?



This week Chelle wants to know where I buy my makeup. I am all over the place when it comes to makeup purchases. Waaaaay back in the day I was a Mary Kay kind of girl, in fact, I even sold the stuff. {Please don't judge me.} Those were the days when I had 20 minutes to stare at myself in the mirror and apply three different shades of eyeshadow and such. In the here and now, not so much. I am lucky to get any makeup on at all before I head out the door with preschooler, baby, diaper bag, keys, and cell phone, to run errands, get to the doctor appointment, make preschool drop off, attend playdates, or head to church.



Really who has time for makeup? Oh, you do? I'm jealous.



Anywho, I digress. My makeup of choice these days is BareMinerals from Bare Escentuals which you can either buy online or at one of their boutiques or at Sephora. I love that it only takes 5 minutes for me to look refreshed, and if I spend 5 minutes more I can look "made up." I am not above shopping at the drugstore for CoverGirl, Almay, or Loreal either. It just depends on what sort of makeup mood I am in. And right now, I am in a BareMinerals kind of mood. When I decide that it isn't worth the price, I'll be back at Walgreens.



Where do you shop? Head on over to The Winey Mommy to read more This or That Tuesdays!



Erin

Sunday, March 21, 2010

The Story of Mr. Rose

A few weeks ago I mentioned in a blog post that my husband, aka Mr. Rose, stole me away won my heart from another man boy. Several of my bloggy friends asked to hear that story so here it goes.



When I was in college, I met a Boy. He was a nice Boy from a nice family that lived in the town right next to my hometown. I met Boy the summer after my sophomore year, a year which was the most tumultuous of all my college years and a year in which I had all but sworn off ever dating again.



Boy and I had fun in college. We went to football games and parties, but we could not have been more different. I consider myself a very good student; Boy was just getting by. I like to go out, dance, see movies, attend concerts; Boy was a hunter/fisherman.



After graduation, we continued to date while living about an hour apart. I had a full time Monday to Friday job in The City, while he worked a less traditional schedule that included evenings and weekends out in The Country. Before I knew it we were growing apart, but I was still hanging on by a thread.



Right around the same time, I started an MBA program for professionals. I took two classes a session which met in the evenings and one Saturday a month. About a month into the program, I sat outside my classroom waiting for my first Accounting exam. I was freaking out a bit and trying to cram every bit of information into my brain possible.



As I sat there, I noticed someone walk up. He tried to strike up a conversation with me, trying to ensure me that I was going to do great on the test. All I could think was, "Why is this guy talking to me???" It was Mr. Rose.



A few weeks later, I began to socialize a bit more with my classmates. I became friends with a group of them and we started going out for drinks after tests and then dinner. One of these friends was Mr. Rose.



The next summer I was still dating Boy, but the arguments were becoming more frequent and more volatile (but never violent.) Mr. Rose and I were spending more time together with our friends, but also one on one. He'd invite me over to "work on homework," but it was really just so that he could cook me dinner.



At the end of August that year, one of my best friends was getting married three states away. I had arranged for Boy and I to road-trip and attend the festivities together. The day before we were supposed to leave, Boy called me up and asked me what he was supposed to wear. To a wedding. Seriously? Coat and tie, Dude, coat and tie. We actually had a really big fight over the whole thing. It was so stupid. I called Mr. Rose and asked his opinion. I cried on his proverbial shoulder over the phone.



Our relationship was rocky at best, but after this wedding weekend it was as good as over. Boy did not bring a coat and tie as I had instructed. He only brought a dress shirt, one dress shirt to be exact, to which he needed to wear to two events, the rehearsal dinner and the wedding. What the???



During the wedding reception, he sat out in my car to listen to a football game on the radio. I called Mr. Rose at home, but he was out so I cried into his answering machine. It was one of the worst weekends of my entire life.



Every morning for the next week, I got up and prayed for guidance. Mr. Rose asked if he could take me out to dinner one night. I didn't think anything about it until he showed up at my door in a shirt and tie (not his normal eating out with a friend attire.) As it turned out, I had spent the entire afternoon in my friend's office crying my eyes out. I had decided to break up with the Boy. Because I had cried my eyes out, they were red, swollen, dry, and scratchy and I could barely keep them open.



Mr. Rose was so sweet that night. He tried to keep my mind off of things by telling me that he was getting a promotion. I don't think he knew at that point that I was breaking up with Boy, but I remember thinking how wonderful he was to be there for me.



In the end, I did break up with the Boy. And after a few weeks of pretending to myself that he wasn't interested in me, I finally gave in and allowed myself to be swept off of my feet. Mr. Rose was, and still is, everything that Boy was not and never would be for me.



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Mr. Rose is my rock, my steady hand, my common sense, my comedian, my partner, my love, my everything. Do you know that Garth Brooks song Unanswered Prayers? Here is the line that hits home for me every,time:

And as she walked away and I looked at my wife
And then and there I thanked the good Lord
For the gifts in my life

Some of God's greatest gifts are all too often unanswered...
Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers



Amen to that.



Mr. Rose is on an extended travel assignment right now. I want to give him a huge hug and kiss right now, but I can't. So for those of you out there with a wonderful man in your life, go give him a big hug for me.



Erin

Friday, March 19, 2010

Fabulous Friday: Blog design and sandwiches

CHECK. IT. OUT!!! I have a new blog design!! {Can you tell I am a tad bit excited about it?} Lena over at Simply Fabulous Blogger Templates helped me customize one of her lovely premade templates and then she installed it for me. She was so easy to work with...and fast! I have really been struggling for some time over my blog design. I wanted to hire someone to design the whole thing, but I didn't want to shell out the moola. And even if I did shell it out, I wasn't really clear on what I wanted. Something cute. That's about all I could really visualize.

What do you think?

And if you are the kind of blogger that likes buttons, feel free to grab mine.

So if that wasn't enough to make this a fabulous Friday, I ATE THE BEST SANDWICH OF MY ENTIRE LIFE TODAY. True Story. Seeing as how it is Lent and I am Catholic, I do not eat meat on Fridays. My Mom and I were trying to figure out what to have for dinner when she handed me a takeout menu for a local sandwich shop. I glanced over it for a minute before I saw this:

Pimento Cheese Panini - Homemade with a blend of three cheeses and fire roasted red peppers.

Shut the front door. As any good, self-respecting Southerner, I love a good pimento cheese sandwich. But until today, I had never had a hot grilled pimento cheese panini. I cannot even describe to you the deliciousness that was this sandwich. Let me channel my inner Giada deLaurentis:

Warm, gooey, cheesy filling with a hint of spice from the peppers...all inside two thick slices of grilled crusty bread.

Be still my Southern heart. I fell in love at first bite. Pimento Cheese Panini, you had me at hello.

There's nothing like a new blog design and a good sandwich to bring me out of my Pour Your Heart Out funk. Thank you all for your kind comments yesterday.

I appreciate it more than I can ever express.

I hope you all have a great weekend!



Erin

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Pouring my heart out, a day late!

My lovely friend Shell, over at Things I Can't Say, started a new carnival today. It's called Pour Your Heart Out.

 
I'm sorry I didn't get this up earlier, but I wanted to support my bloggy friend and I have something I need to get off my chest.
 
I am worried about my baby.
 
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I know, I know. What Mom doesn't worry about her babies? Perhaps I am a bit neurotic. Perhaps. Maybe I am just in a funky down and out mood. Maybe.
 
But I am still worried about her.
 
Let me give you a little history first. Baby B was born a few weeks premature, 35 weeks and 4 days to be exact. Not too early, but early enough to spend a week in the NICU with respiratory distress, jaundice, and learning how to feed and grow. For those of you who haven't experienced having a child in the NICU, it is hell. And my kiddo wasn't nearly as sick as some of the other children in there.
 
But it is hell, nonetheless. Tubes, monitors, nurses, doctors, people with serious looks on their faces. Never knowing what the next day, hour, or minute will bring. The greatest part of this hell for me is being separated from my baby, from the little human who had been a part of my body growing for all those 35 weeks and 4 days.
 
Once we got her medical issues under control, we began the feed and grow portion of our stay. Because I wanted to exclusively breastfeed her, I was allowed to stay in the hospital in a room adjoining the NICU. Little Baby B, all 6 pounds of her, did not want to eat, not for long anyway. She would nurse for 7 to 10 minutes and then fall asleep. I worked with nurses and lactaction consultants. Everyone said I was doing fine and to give her time.
 
After a few days of this, B showed enough progression and weight gain to go home. And now I was really a nervous wreck. My pediatrician assured me the next day when we visited her office that everything was fine. She was doing great.
 
Everyday I worried, is she eating enough? Is she gaining enough weight? Is she meeting her developmental milestones?
 
At her four month appointment, we noted that B fell down the growth curve a little from 10th to 6th percentile, but she was still gaining weight. At her six month, she was down to the 3rd percentile.
 
Developmentally, she rolls over but not as much as Miss H did at this age. She is only sitting up assisted, and doesn't sit well. We have been working on getting her to eat solids for the past three months and she is just now getting the hang of eating. She doesn't eat much of those either.
 
So that's it. I am worried about my baby. I'm worried that she doesn't eat enough. I'm worried that she doesn't sleep enough. I'm worried that she isn't developing as she should be. Worried. Worried. Worried.
 
And do you know what's worse? The other moms who ask you how much your baby weighs and what your baby can do to compare their child to yours. Yes, my baby is itty bitty. I get it. No, she can't crawl or sit up or stand yet. Thanks for rubbing it in.
 
Right after Baby B's six month appointment, I posted a facebook status something to the effect of how little she was and that now I knew what it was like to be the mom of an itty bitty baby. A friend of mine, yes A FRIEND, commented "Isn't she like seven months old now? MY BABY weighed that much at her two month appointment!"
 
Really, I don't give a flying flip. And no, she is only six months old, five if you adjust for her prematurity. I think Shell has a word for women like her....
 
Man, it feels good to get that off my chest. Thanks, Shell.
 
Erin

I am waaaay behind on blog awards

Hey y'all. I don't know what is wrong with me, but I seem to be heading into a blog funk. I am really going to try to write something meaningful tonight to post for tomorrow.



In the meantime, three very wonderful ladies have awarded me The Lovely Blog award. Thank you so much to Joni from Six Cherries on Top, Margaret from Pickles & Lillipops, and Frugal Vicki from Frugal Mom Knows Best for giving me this award.



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Here are the rules:



Accept the award, post it on your blog together with the name of the person who has granted the award, and his or her blog link. Pass the award to 15 other blogs that you’ve newly discovered. Remember to contact the bloggers to let them know they have been chosen for this award.



Fifteen Fabulous Friends:



Okay, I know that's not 15, but I wanted to be really honest with these awards. I hope you go check them out because they are really fun bloggers. I am turning off my comments on this blog. Please go visit them instead and give them the blog love!



Erin

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Win baby gear from JPMA

If you have read my blog in the past, you know that I am a big supporter of the Juvenile Products Manufacturer's Association (JPMA). JPMA is an organization that represents 95% of the "prenatal to preschool industry." They are dedicated to "promoting...the safe use of juvenile products."

Right now, JPMA is conducting a survey of parents. It is very quick and painless, and if you take it, you could be entered to win some fabulous baby products! Click here to take the survey and check out the gear you could win from companies like Baby Bjorn, Peg Perego, Chicco USA, and more!

Good luck!

Erin

 

 

This or That? Tuesday {Week 1}

I decided to try something different this Tuesday, so I am linking up with one of my favorite bloggers, Chelle at The Winey Mommy for This or That Tuesday.



The Winey Mommy
 


Here is this week's scenario:



You show up at a party of an acquaintance.  It's an evening party and you don't know very many people there. For whatever reason you decide to show up alone--and pray that your friends will indeed make it.



Would you rather show up under dressed or over dressed?



This is a hard one. I think I would rather show up slightly over dressed, as in a cute blouse and skirt, but with comfy shoes like sandals, and maybe some funky jewelry. If people are going to be staring at me wondering who I am, I want them to be thinking, "Wow, she looks great!"



Which would you rather be? Write your own post and then head over to Chelle's to link up!

Erin

Monday, March 15, 2010

My baby is turning three today

Three years ago today, my life changed forever. I gave birth to a 4lb-13oz, 32 week preemie. My husband chose her first name and I picked her middle name. She was tiny, and oh so perfect. During the following three weeks, I learned the struggle of a mother to a NICU baby: pumping round the clock, eating hospital food, worrying incessantly about her progress.



Over the last three years, Miss H has grown into quite the little lady. She loves to play pretend with her princesses, to have tea parties, to climb on the jungle gym, to do anything just to be like me.



I had no idea when I gave birth that my heart would begin to reside outside of my body. I would move heaven and earth to keep her safe, keep her healthy, and keep her happy. Here is a little photo essay of Miss H's first three years.



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Miss H's Baptism July 2007

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Spring 2008 My big 1 year old



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March 15, 2009 - 2nd Birthday



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March 2010 - 3rd Birthday



Oh my little one, Mama and Dada love you so. Happy Birthday, sweetheart!

Mama

Sunday, March 14, 2010

I can't win: Consignment shopping edition

I love a good deal. I never pay anything full price if I can help it (thanks to the thrifty influence of my husband!) I am terrible at couponing, but I always shop sales and try to buy the less expensive of two products when given the opportunity.

Last week, my sister and I decided to check out a children's consignment sale. {Sidenote - if you haven't checked out my sister's blog, please do. She is new to the blogging game and is expecting a baby!} I went looking for two specific items: an exersaucer/activity center and a diaper pail.

We arrived a few minutes early as this was the first consignment shopping experience for both of us. I was pleasantly surprised by the number of items I saw. When we first entered, we found ourselves right by the activity gyms and exersaucers. I browsed through about 20 of them and picked a model similar to one that Baby B tried out a few days ago at a friend's house. And the price was right to boot - $15! Sweet!!

My sister landed herself a bouncy seat for $8 and a cute bedding set for $40. I found a Diaper Genie (with a refill) for $5! That was the deal of the night.

I was so excited about my purchases and the unbelievable deals that I got. We even signed up to go to another show this week.

And then I went home.

The next morning I cleaned the exersaucer with Clorex wipes, and when she was ready, I let Baby B at it. She was having such a fun time playing with all the toys. She was even starting to figure out how to turn herself around.

And then it happened. The floor broke out from underneath her in one corner.

What the.....????

This exersaucer had been broken in one corner and rigged to appear that it was in perfect working order. It is completely unusable and unfixable. I am dismayed that someone would try to pawn this off on a consignment sale just to make a few bucks. It is my own fault for not giving it a more thorough once over. But still, I can't believe that someone would do that.

So the moral of the story is be careful what you buy on consignment. Not everyone is as honest as you would hope.

Erin

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Saturday Silliness: Kids draw the darndest things

One day last week, Miss H and I were talking about planting flowers this weekend. It was very cold that day, and she didn't understand why we couldn't plant the flowers right then and there. So I sidetracked her by suggesting we draw a picture of some flowers.



I got all the art materials out for her. While I worked on dinner, she started to draw. She drew two pink circles on her paper and said, "Look, Mommy!"



"What are those, sweetie? Pretty pink flowers?" I asked.



"No flowers. Mommy's Muscles!"



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That's right. My girl drew a picture of my "girls!" Kids draw the darndest things, right???



Erin

Friday, March 12, 2010

Friday Follow- March 12

Once again, I'm joining up with Friday Follow, organized by One 2 Try, Hearts Make Families and Midday Escapades. One thing you should know about me is that I love to leave comments. If you comment here, I normally reply with an email and usually a return comment back to you. I'm off to link up and find some fun new blogs. Click the button below to come join the fun! And leave them a comment too! Let's get this conversation started!

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Erin

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Top 3 Thursday: Favorite Things About Being a Parent

 

This week Confessions of a Working Mom and The (Un)Experienced Mom want to know "What are your Top 3 Favorite Things about being a Mom?"

There are so many ups and downs to being a Mom. Sometimes the downs are way down, but the ups more than make up for them. Here are my Top 3:

#3 Being the one they run to when they need a boo boo kissed: Miss H is a rough and tumble kind of kid, but she usually just jumps up and brushes is it off. On the occasion that she really does hurt herself, I love that I am the one that she runs to for comfort. A kiss and a hug usually do the trick, although and ice pack or a band-aid may be involved, too!

#2 Holding a sleeping baby: Really, is there anything more wonderful than holding a sleeping baby in your arms. Baby B is only falling asleep in my arms during our (3!) middle of the night feedings. Sometimes I just sit in the rocking chair and hold her for a few minutes before putting her back in her bed. Miss H will fall asleep in the car every once in awhile, and I will carry her sleeping to her bed. I love that!

#1 Being called "Mommy": Baby B is too young to say it yet, but whenever I come into her view she gives me a big smile and gets all excited. When I come home from being out, Miss H will run to me and say "Mommy's home, Mommy's home!" It is the best feeling to know how much these girls need and love me. And that makes all the temper tantrums, lack of sleep, and general frustrations, totally worth it.

To read more Top 3's, stop by Confessions, or write your own and link up! Happy Thursday, the weekend is almost here!!

Erin

 

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

How do we know what is safe for our children?

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The blood in my veins went ice cold. The very thought that I could have lost one of my babies because I used a product for convenience....I can't even go there.



Recalls. Warnings. Notices. Is there any such thing as a perfectly safe childen's product? How are we supposed to know what products are, or are not, safe for us to use with our children? When you walk into The Big Baby Box Store, should there not be some guarantee of safety? They are BABIES for crying out loud.



When I was a Product Manager in the juvenile products industry, part of my job was making sure that the products we distributed exceeded every relevant safety standard applicable. I learned that there are very few mandatory safety standards that apply to children's products. Seriously? The products that our children sleep in, play in, bathe in, and eat in aren't required to prove their safety. Doesn't that sound backward to you?



JPMACertifiedPromoLogo There are voluntary safety standards for twenty different categories of children's products. In my opinion, I would rather buy a product that I know was at least tested than one that was not. The Juvenile Product Manufacturer's Association certifies products that pass the voluntary safety standards, and their certification logo is printed on the box of the certified products. You can also view the complete list here.



Another way to stay informed is to sign up for recall notices on the Consumer Product Safety Commission's web site. Any time there is a recall (you can select which category of products you are interested in), you will receive an email with all the details. It takes 30 seconds to sign up, and 30 seconds to review the emails to see if anything applies to you.



As a Mom, the child safety issue is extremely important to me. I am going to start using this blog to write about the great, and the not so great products that I come across. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please don't hesitate to ask.



Erin

Post It Note Tuesday - Calling out the crib company

Today I am linking up with SupahMommy's Post-it Note Tuesday. If you haven't read about the completely ridiculous time I have been having getting my crib assembled, you can read about it here and here.

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Seriously though, this situation is beyond ridiculous. I am so done dealing with this company. If you or anyone you know is in the crib market, please steer clear of them.

Erin

Sunday, March 7, 2010

The good, the bad, and the ugly Weekend Review

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The Good:

I got my hair cut! This is the after:

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(This is the before picture. Dang, my hair was long!)

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I also got a pedicure! The color is a little more fluorescent than I normally pick, but what the heck.

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The really good news is that while I was out having my Mommy-time, I was not at all stressed about being away from the baby. A huge jump forward in my Type-A Mommy life.

The Bad:

The whole point of me going to the salon to get my hair done, was to get rid of my gray hair. After talking it through with the stylist, we decided blending them in highlights is the best solution for my hair. However, the past two times I had my hair colored, it was all over color at an Aveda salon. And apparently, once you go Aveda, you can't go back. At least when it comes to putting highlights on top of permanent color. Soooo, I didn't get it colored, but I am still loving the cut. And I was also able to get the pedicure instead.

The Ugly:

Do you remember my frustrating experience I wrote about last week with the crib manufacturer? They sent me a new leg to my crib, which I received on Friday. When I opened the package Saturday morning to try to assemble my crib for the FOURTH time, it was the WRONG PART AGAIN. They are going to hear from me again Monday morning, and if it is not resolved, you all will hear about it! And this time, I will call them out by name!!

Erin

Friday, March 5, 2010

Weekend plans, a favor, and Friday Follow

This weekend I am going to be sulking because I am not at Bloggy Bootcamp with all my SITStah's unplugging because I think it is going to be a slow weekend in the blogosphere. I plan to get my hair done and write some blog posts for next week. I hope to get some sewing and crafting done, too.

Now for the favor. My little sister has started her own blog, Following the Yellow Brick Road to Motherhood. I would really, really, really, REALLY appreciate it if you would visit her and leave her a comment if you so desire. She is new to the blog world and I would love to send a few of my followers her way.

Once again, I'm joining up with Friday Follow, organized by One 2 Try, Hearts Make Families and Midday Escapades. One thing you should know about me is that I love to leave comments. If you comment here, I normally reply with an email and usually a return comment back to you. I'm off to link up and find some fun new blogs. Click the button below to come join the fun! And leave them a comment too! Let's get this conversation started!

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Erin

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Top 3 Thursday: Favorite Things About Spring

Elizabeth at Confessions From A Working Mom wants to know:What are your Top 3 Favorite Things about Spring.

I love Spring. It is, by far, my favorite season. I love how the world transforms from a cold dreary gray winter into a warm green fragrant lush spring. Living in the South for most of my life, spring has meant first trips to the beach for the year, track meets, baseball games, concerts in the park, and other activities in the sunshine. I am getting all warm and fuzzy inside just thinking about it. So my top three favorite things about Spring are:

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#3 Daffodils - When I start to see the green stems of the daffodils shoot up in March, I know that Spring is right around the corner. Clemson University (where I matriculated from) is covered in yellow daffodils every spring. It is the most gorgeous thing in the world. These lovely flowers trigger happy thoughts in my brain and I simply love that about Spring.

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Yes, those are my feet.

#2 Flipflops and Sandals - Here in the South, Spring usually means temperatures warm enough to sport some open-toed shoes. I love to wear flip flops and sandals because I hate trying to find a matching pair of socks. I also love sandals because that means I get to wear pretty colored nail polish on my tootsies! And that brings me to.....

#1 Warmer Temperatures - I don't know about you, but these frigid (40's and 50's) temperatures we have been having around here lately are getting a tad old. We had one snow day here that was the snowiest day since 1973; a total of 8 inches fell in a place where a dusting normally closes school. Enough with the cold already. I am ready to wear my sandals, and once I get a hold of some self-tanning lotion, some shorts!

What do you love about Spring? Head on over to Confessions and link up!

Erin

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

"Your call is very important to us."

That is the line that I have been hearing over and over for a month now. On January 21, I purchased a crib for Baby B to use while we are staying at my parent's house. That weekend my Dad and I attempted, unsuccessfully, to assemble the crib. After an hour and a half, we only had the headboard and one end assembled before we realized that one of the parts was defective.

Fast forward 39 days.

I have made seven phone calls to the manufacturer trying to get a replacement part. Yes, that's right. SEVEN. And each time I call, I get to listen to the hold message. On the occasions that I have gotten to actually speak to a person (see four calls detailed below), I have been placated with what I thought was a reasonable remedy.

Call #1: The company sent out two different parts, a leg and and endboard, because we weren't sure which of the two was defective. This took 10 business days to receive. When I got around to trying to assemble again, I discovered the defective part was indeed the leg. However, they sent me the wrong leg. I needed the left leg, and they sent me the right one.

Call #2: The company apologized for sending the wrong leg and would rush out the correct part to me. Two weeks later I still had not received it, and in my crazy stay at home with two kids life didn't realize it until two weeks had gone by.

Call #3: The customer service representative apologized, again, and informed me that the part I needed was out of stock. The warehouse had failed to inform him of this and that is why I had not received anything yet. He suggested sending me the correct part that I needed in a different color so that I could at least assemble and use the product until the correct color part was in stock in three to four weeks. He sent this part via 2 day Express.

Call #4: Upon receipt of the wrong color leg, I discovered that it was NOT EVEN CLOSE to being the right part. It was the wrong length and shape. ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME???????

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My blood was boiling at this point. This happened on Sunday February 28. I was so irate that I was getting ready to write negative postings of this company all over the Internet, on my blog, on facebook, on Twitter, on Amazon and Babies R Us product postings.

By Monday morning, I had calmed down a bit. But I was resolved that the only solution I would be happy with would be for them to send me a completely new crib or to get my money back. After twenty minutes of being transferred into various people's voicemails, I finally left one for the person that I had been working with the entire month. The message went something like this:

Hi there. This is Erin R, reference #12345. This has been going on for over a month now and I still do not have the correct part. I need your company to either send me a new crib or give me my money back. You have three hours to call me back, or I am going to flame your company all over the Internet.

Did I get a call back? No. Did I make good on my threats? No. I haven't had time. And that is probably a good thing.

Yesterday, I received a call from the company's customer service manager. He apologized profusely for the problem and explained what had happened. He told me that they were in the process of breaking down some cribs to replenish their spare parts and that my part would be out to me by Friday. It wasn't a great excuse, but I actually felt better that they had done something urgent to meet my need.

Although I *think* this situation is resolved, I will not buy anything from them again. However, I also am not going to spread the news all over the Internet. I don't know if my situation is an isolated one or a common occurrence, and I have no way of finding out. My advice to you is that when purchasing ANYTHING, especially baby products, try to buy from a reputable company with a record of excellent customer service. I took the economy route when making this purchase and now I wish I had spent the extra $30 to buy the other crib from a more customer friendly company.

Hindsight is 20/20, right?

Erin

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Post-It Note Tuesday

Today I am linking up with SupahMommy's Post-it Note Tuesday. I am a Post-it Virgin, so I apologize if I don't bring the funny. Head on over to Supah's blog to read more post-its!

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Can anyone tell me why my post-its have black backgrounds?Thanks!

Erin